Breaking the (Chick) Habit

Some people are wretchedly, heartacheingly slow. It's a painful fact. It's a painful thing to have to witness. Especially young women who give their trust to anyone. It literally kills me, emotionally. Like, girls who have, and continue to exist in, abusive relationships with men. In the same relationships where the man goes so far as to "Make them" clock in to and from wherever their day's activities take them. Yet that is the staple of a normal relationship to most girls. It's called mind control, actually. But most of them call it love. "What the fuck is wrong with you?" is all I want to say. How can you call that love? It hurts me personally much more than it should. I guess i'm just an inherent "Softy". But it does hurt me: To see girls used and abused, falling into all sorts of traps soooo easily. Most girls are really ignorant, emotionally. I'm not sure if this is because we ARE the "Weaker sex", as they say. But something makes girls the more vunerable of the sexes. Probably, it's because there is a little bit more desperation in us to find someone who will love us, or, as is the case with most girls, to accept the "next best thing" if we cannot meet Mr. Right. I say "We" like this affects ME. But really it doesn't. I guess i'm just too aware of what's out there in the world. There are people out there who would harm you simply because the opportunity came out of the blue. Lies are man's best friend, and it's all too important for me not to ever give my trust to just anyone, because I could end up on with the short end of the stick.

But I guess I can still relate with other girls. I too would like to find love: The sort of love that could last forever. But my well being is of the utmost importance. I DON'T SETTLE. I'm stronger than most girls, and most girls hate me for it. My favorite and most valued word is "No!". "No, i'm not going to 'Get with you'". And most certainly, "No the fuck I will not fuck you!". "No!" is one of my favorite words. It's a very neccessary word. And contrary to belief, it doesn't make you a "Bad" or a "Mean" person. Girls need to learn how to say, "No!". But most importantly, they need to learn how to say, "Goodbye".

Girls need to learn to see the signs. Of control, manipulation, obsession, etc etc. They spend so much of their lives trying to please their "Man", that they lose sight of themselves, and their own dreams.